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    The Executive Communicator Team

    The Manager as Change Agent

    November 15, 2017 by The Executive Communicator Team

     

    “To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.”

    – Winston Churchill

    Change. One of life’s most constant experiences, yet the one most of us resist. Why? Because we crave stability. At work a stable environment helps us work efficiently and feel secure. Unfortunately corporate life offers no such thing, and with increasing changes of globalization, tech innovations and workplace cultural shifts, the modern professional must be willing and ready to work with change and even leverage it to the advantage of their companies and their own careers.

     

    Over the last two years alone we’ve seen massive changes in business. The merger of AT&T and Time Warner. The contentious resignation of Uber CEO Travis Kalanick. Amazon’s acquisition of Whole Foods. Think about what it must be like for a middle manager working in one of these companies. In an environment of extreme uncertainty, they are required to translate big messages down the ladder in a way that reduces fear, defuses resistance and gains the buy-in of their teams. With operational success hinging on their ability to effectively communicate, they become the change agents of their organizations.

     

    No pressure, right?

     

    In this blog we’ll discuss change, resistance, and the important role of middle managers to communicate effectively in times of change, and even how to build commitment during these critical periods.

     

    Maybe you’re a middle manager whose company is going through a transition—an expansion, a downsizing or a new initiative that requires a shift in workplace culture. You’ve been tasked with explaining decisions you played no part in making. You might not have all the info you’d like to have. Maybe you have unanswered questions of your own. Still, it’s your responsibility to gain the commitment of your teams so that this major organizational change can move forward.

     

    Prepare yourself to meet resistance in all of its glaring forms. Resistance is a natural reaction in times of change. Most people will have one of four reactions to a change that could affect their lives. 15% of people are angry, 40% are fearful, 30% are uncertain but open and 10% are hopeful and energized [Source: Roger D’Aprix, Communicating for Change /Price Pritchett 1996]. That’s over half of your team feeling angry and fearful. You’ve got to find a way to build understanding, confidence and commitment.

    You need a plan.

    The manager with no skills or training will attempt to overpower resistance with ineffective behaviors like coercion and threat. Or she might discount it and avoid it, ignoring her employees concerns, questions and feelings. Neither strategy will work. Employees will fight right back and some may leave the organization. This is why the middle manager’s role is so critical and why the tools we are about to discuss are valuable and worthy of your time to learn.

    As a leader, you must lay out the facts, explain the rationale for change, illustrate what success for all looks like, then provide a plan. And do it in a way that inspires buy-in and action from your teams. You want them to know that their input, involvement and ultimately their work is what is going to create this positive change for their company.

    A technique developed in the mid 1930’s by Purdue University instructor Alan H. Monroe, called Monroe’s Motivated Sequence is a useful tool that inspires people to take action.

    Here’s how it works:

    Step 1: Attention

    • Grab the attention of your audience by describing your company’s situation. You want to open their eyes and make them a little uncomfortable.

    Step 2: Need

    • Urgently communicate the need by reinforcing the problem facing your company and your teams.

    Step 3: Satisfy the Need

    • Here’s where you introduce the solution and lay out the plan forward.

    Step 4: Visualize the Future

    • Paint a picture of the successful outcome you all will achieve if you work together (as well as what might happen if you don’t).

    Step 5: Action

    • Now it’s time to ask for action. Let your teams know exactly what you need them to do enact the plan and ask for their input and opinions so that they’re able to take ownership.

    Imagine yourself in your company’s conference room just having delivered a message like this to your teams. You were powerful, clear, urgent and inspiring. During your speech you looked around the room and saw heads nodding. You got the message that yes, “I hear what you’re saying. I believe you. This is a good idea. I believe in this plan”. And in the process, you have reinforced your position as a trustworthy manager who is capable of inspiring action and change.

    Nice work. You’ve begun the visionary process of change-making. You have started an ongoing, consistent dialogue with employees that will:

    • Reduce ambiguity and confusion
    • Change attitudes
    • Foster participation
    • Build commitment

    Dr. John Kotter, thought leader and author of Leading Change (1996) describes this phase as enlisting a volunteer army. Within Kotter International’s Eight Steps for Accelerating Change, he states that large scale change can only occur when at least 50% of the company is on board and willing to work towards the change. Once these employees are actively engaged, their leaders must keep them inspired to work toward the company’s vision.

    This is where a long term action plan is necessary to support your work of shaping the thinking and attitudes of your reports. Your day to day commitment to this plan through personal example, direct interactions, meetings, presentations and written communications will be what carries your organization’s change and ultimate success, forward.

    If your company’s leaders and middle manager are faced with a challenge like this, consider our program The Leader As Communicator. In this workshop, your understanding of the topics discussed here will be supplemented by real in-person practical experience and one-on-one feedback with a trained coach who can help you perfect your change communication strategy and your overall communication skills.

    Change in life, and in business is constant. Arm yourself with the right tools and become a powerful agent for change.

     

    Filed Under: Leadership and Management Tagged With: change management, leadership

    Negotiation. The Ultimate Stress Test

    February 24, 2017 by The Executive Communicator Team

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ilSeJ6B5ro

    Real life requires regular negotiation. Sharpen your every day negotiation skills using the tips in this blog series, and you’ll soon be creating better business outcomes.

    In April, Secret Deodorant, owned by Proctor & Gamble, launched a very endearing, funny national commercial spot called “Raise” in which Lucy, a young career woman, rehearses asking her boss for a raise in front of the bathroom mirror. Ambitious and sharp, we empathize with her as she struggles to form the sentences she hopes will get her the salary increase and recognition she wants. She starts and stops, switches tactics, reverts to flattery, changes her mind. Her nervousness is palpable, as she flubs her words, grabs at her hair and exhales loudly. Yes, she’s been with her company two years longer than Todd, who earns more than her. Yes, she’s a “really great…leader”. What she isn’t is an experienced negotiator and unfortunately, this might stand in the way of her scoring that promotion.

    Negotiation is not in our nature.

    Despite what Secret might be saying about wage inequality, which is beyond the scope of this blog post, the video reinforces that no one is born with polished negotiation skills. Negotiation is a complex, technical set of behaviors that must be learned and practiced, honed and developed over time, through multiple negotiations. Anyone can tackle the subject if they know how.

    The problem is, most people don’t. Negotiation is so awkward and uncomfortable that most of us avoid it altogether. We tip toe around critical conversations, have them badly, or worse never have them at all. Ever wonder why it’s so difficult to have important conversations about things that matter to us? We’re physiologically wired for the fight or flight response. And who wants to deal with these difficult emotions, especially at work? But the cost of avoidance can be high. In Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever’s groundbreaking book Women Don’t Ask (2003), they share the unsettling research that those who ask for more money in first job salary negotiations end up earning about $15K more per year than their non-asking counterparts. Over the course of an entire career, this can add up to a huge inequality in pay, hundreds of thousands of dollars. A second home. An advanced degree. College tuition for several children. Clearly, it pays to ask.

    The irrefutable case for negotiation.

     The benefit of negotiating isn’t always financial. We negotiate with a colleague and discover ways to share resources and save our limited budgets. We advocate for family leave benefits in our company, and get them. We deepen professional relationships by resolving an ongoing conflict between departments. When we commit to the practice of effective communication and negotiation, we commit to reaching a beneficial outcome for others and ourselves.

    We can’t stress this point enough. Negotiation is a critical skill to learn in work and in life. And while advanced negotiation techniques do take time to develop, you’ll be happy to learn that you are already negotiating on some level, every day. We negotiate with customer service representatives, employers, bosses and spouses. High stakes, low stakes, we are all negotiators.

    Introducing…. Negotiation, A Blog Series.

    Because the field of negotiation is so vast, and its impact so wide reaching, The Executive Communicator has decided to run a blog series on the topic, where we’ll explore the art, science, theory and practice. We will focus on the Principled Negotiation style developed by the Harvard Negotiation Project and cite some of the most respected texts on these subjects. We’ll also pull insights and case studies gleaned from our twenty years of experience as a business communications firm, working with diverse groups of individuals, teams and organizations in a variety of business fields both in the United States and abroad.

    As we break down the Principled Negotiation method, you’ll see how numerous communications and professional skills come into play. Emotional intelligence, analytical thinking, research and preparation, interpersonal skills and active listening are a few of the tools in a skilled negotiator’s arsenal. You may find you have emotional intelligence (EQ) in spades, but lack the analytical skills to continuously separate the people from the problems while in the heat of the moment. You’ll be able to assess your strengths and weaknesses and identify your focus areas.

    We will also explore common challenges and pitfalls in negotiation and offer advice on how to overcome them. As well, you’ll learn negotiation for women and how gender plays into communications.

    It’s our sincere hope that this blog series on negotiation arms you with the knowledge, theory and practical advice you need to start negotiating, so that over time you develop this critical communication skill and obtain more of what you want for yourself as a professional. If you are a businessperson who needs help with negotiation or you head up a team that needs help with conflict resolution, we encourage you to give us a call to discuss how one of our coaches might help. While self-education is key to improving communications skills, nothing beats real-world experience, or the help of an experienced, trusted coach who can work with you on your unique workplace challenges. Read more about our negotiation programs here.

     

    Best regards,

     

    Susan and the Executive Communicator Team

    Filed Under: Negotiation and Conflict Resolution Tagged With: conflict resolution, Negotiation

    How to Build Executive Presence

    August 30, 2016 by The Executive Communicator Team

    executive presence

    Just as many enigmatic actors possess an on-screen sparkle that can captivate an audience, great leaders possess a similar quality— an elusive yet critical trait that has a powerful impact on personal and organizational success. This term is called Executive Presence and can be defined by an individual’s ability to empower, influence and bring out the best in others. It is the synthesis of all celebrated leadership qualities and is expressed by how one acts, speaks and looks. This term has become common in HR and L&D circles because studies show that executive presence is a key factor in advancement and promotion. In this post, we’ll help define this leadership quality, illustrate its importance and tell you how it is developed.

    According to a 2012 study by the NYC based Center For Talent Innovation in which 4,000 corporate professionals were surveyed, Executive Presence depends on the following three cornerstones:

    1. Gravitas: A leader’s confidence, integrity, grit, decisiveness, emotional intelligence and ability to remain calm and in control under pressure. This quality is the greatest contributor to executive presence, according to 67% of the 268 senior executives surveyed.
    1. Communication: An essential leadership component, 28% of those surveyed said success depends on excellent speaking skills, command of a room, ability to read their audience and adapt their style or message accordingly.
    1. Appearance: 55% of a leader’s impression is visual, so clothing, grooming and physical appearance is key. While only 5% of leaders say attractiveness is vital to Executive Presence, 35% say that good grooming increases it and 76% say that inappropriate clothing detracts from it.

    As if having these qualities weren’t tall order enough, leaders must also know how to implement them for success. In today’s business world, leader’s responsibilities are manifold—they must be credible and earn the trust of their employees and teams. They must influence their constituents and win buy-in from both external and internal audiences. Leaders must motivate, inspire and empower employees during times of change and clearly articulate decisions that affect everyone in the company. And leaders must bring out the best in people so that they are satisfied and productive at work. When any one of these important efforts is missing, an organization’s success can hang in the balance.

    Several years ago our office received a call from a VP of Executive Development. Her company’s CFO had just been promoted to CEO. This new position required greater exposure to key stakeholders both internal and external, and the new CEO was struggling to adjust. Several concerns were cited, among them, – “appearance is too casual in dress and body language”… “direct reports aren’t clear on direction and not taking action”… “doesn’t appear confident when speaking to employees or clients”… “just not acting like a CEO!”. The CEO’s communication and executive presence needed a boost; a problem the organization sought to fix as quickly as possible.

    Luckily, research strongly suggests that executive presence can be learned and developed. In fact, 98% of executives surveyed in the CTI study reported that their skills were learned, not innate.

    So if Executive Presence is learned, where does one begin? In this particular case as with all coaching engagements, we start with assessment. Once our President Susan Farwell was engaged to provide coaching for this CEO, they underwent a comprehensive assessment of current communication behaviors to understand how the CEO was being perceived by those they needed to influence and lead.

    After working together to determine areas for improvement, Susan helped the CEO develop clear and direct messaging that gained the respect of the CEO’s direct reports. They worked on building skills that improved the CEO’s poise, confidence and stature. They brushed up on appropriate dress for various work scenarios.

    Within six months of coaching and skill practice, the CEO took on behaviors more suitable to the role. Their appearance became more polished, their behavior became more intentional, their speech took on authority. By practicing these leadership skills with a trusted coach who could provide candid feedback, the CEO began to exhibit the executive presence they needed in order to confidently take the reins and lead their organization.

    Because we are a communications firm whose work is informed by research, we included this example to support the CTI survey finding that 98% of executives developed their leadership aptitude over time. They weren’t born with the necessary tools. Some do this on their own, some work with internal advisors, but many executives find that working with an external coach provides the objective feedback and practice opportunity they need to improve how they act, speak and look.

    Executive Presence is a leadership quality that is fostered through self-awareness, skill development and on the job experience. There is no fast track, but leaders who are aware of it, work hard to cultivate it, and avoid mistakes that sabotage it will enjoy the most success for themselves, their people and their organizations.

     

    Filed Under: Executive and Team Coaching Tagged With: executive coaching, executive presence, leadership

    Transforming Communication

    July 21, 2016 by The Executive Communicator Team

    business communication consulting

    Hello, and welcome to the first post of The Executive Communicator business blog. We are a leadership and communication consulting firm based in New York City, with a team of consultants located around the world. Our purpose as consultants and coaches is to transform how senior leaders and global organizations communicate. We do that by offering best-in-class workshops, coaching and consulting services tailored to meet your specific needs. Our company was founded in 1994 by Susan Farwell, an internationally recognized coach, speaker, seminar leader and facilitator. You can read Susan’s full bio here.

    So why are we blogging? Because we’re passionate about our field, and we deeply believe in the power of effective communication to create real and lasting change within organizations and for individuals. But we know it’s not easy! Great communication must be learned and practiced in the real world, on real challenges and issues. We intend to share our insights for how to improve interpersonal skills, handle difficult conversations, be persuasive, motivate others and better understand cultural differences and world views.

    This blog will encompass a broad array of communication topics. You can expect to read about leadership, change management, intercultural communication, and conflict resolution. We’ll reference field research from sources like The Harvard Negotiation Project and The SHRM Foundation. We’ll discuss diversity in the workplace and help you identify your “cultural intelligence”, or CQ. And we’ll offer practical tips for improving your presentation and negotiation skills. We hope that the content you find here will help you on your personal and professional journey.

    If you like what you read here, we’d love for you to get involved and share with colleagues and friends. Please feel free to comment but kindly take note of our comments policy, which is: Be thoughtful, courteous and respectful of diverse perspectives and people.

    If you’d like to email us your comments or questions, feel free to reach out at [email protected].

    We look forward to connecting with you!

    Sincerely,

    Susan and The Executive Communicator team

    Filed Under: News and Events Tagged With: change management, coaching, communication, conflict resolution, diversity, intercultural communication, leadership

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